When a first time mom experiences her first Mother's Day, it's a completely magical feeling. She's been running on two hours of sleep, her new life has been hectic, her body is still healing, and she finally gets to have a day all about her! Let's be real, though, the absolute last thing a new mom wants to do is get up early, put on a dress, and sit through a crowded brunch with a wiggling baby.
This "fourth trimester" phase she's in is all about SURVIVING, and soaking in those newborn snuggles when she can. This Mother's Day, to all of the friends, partners, and family members reading, get the first time mom in your life the best gift of all: You need to help her feel beautiful and luxurious, all while staying comfortable, whether you're taking her out or she never leaves the living room. While we do have a dedicated Mother's Day section HERE, we've written this to inspire and help nail down exactly what you'll get her. Here's our guide on the ultimate elevated comfort gift basket for her first Mother's Day!
New-Mom-Friendly, but Make it Chic
New mamas practically live in loungewear! Comfort is queen during this stage, and whether or not she looks flawless isn't taken into consideration. Remember, she's lowkey in survival mode during this entire phase. There's a huge difference between ratty old college tees and premium boutique basics. Both provide comfort, but only one provides an elevated, put-together look (and it's not the college tees).
Find a nice, high-quality, breathable pair of women's lounge pants or shorts--something without a tight waistband that could dig into her healing tummy. A comfortable basic tee worn top makes a cute outfit with zero discomfort! If you're living in a cooler climate, a light cardigan is the perfect way for her to stay warm while still looking great for all the photos you'll be taking.
Matching sets are uber cute, and she'll love being picture perfect and cozy at the same time! Pair the lounge set with a nice, crisp, oversized button-down shirt to upgrade it to a super chic and put-together look while still staying as cozy as possible!
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The Contact Nap Baby Essentials
Now, these next gifts are technically for baby, but mama will love and appreciate you endlessly for these add-ons!
New moms love their baby more than anything. Let me repeat myself: more than anything. A happy baby = a happy mama, so a gift that keeps baby comfy and calm will make mama feel good, too!
We can't recommend Quincy Mae Baby enough for all of your baby essentials. From clothes to bibs to swaddles, they have it all. Their products are made of all-natural, ethically sourced materials, and they're heirloom quality! That means that after baby grows out of it it can be passed down to a smaller child or donated, and still look and feel as great as the day you bought it.
You can also go down the sleepwear route! Kyte Baby pajamas are some of our favs here at Wrightsville Ave. These premium PJs are made of all-natural bamboo viscose, so mom won't have to worry about any scratchy fabric or harsh chemicals against baby's skin. This sleepwear is soft and gentle on sensitive newborn skin, but they also keep both baby and mom cool and comfortable so they can cuddle for hours!
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Elevating her Couch Era
Partners reading this, here's another "gift for baby" that's really a gift for mom. A high quality swaddle from Quincy Mae is a great piece to line her gift basket with. It makes the perfect lightweight, breathable throw blanket for mom's shoulders, so she can stay cozy while rocking the baby in the nursery. This is the phase where mom should be spending as much time as possible with her baby, and you need to make sure she's as stress-free as possible. This part of the gift basket is anything that doesn't require her getting up, moving around, or working.
A few small, thoughtful pieces to mama's gift is the perfect way to tie together the gift basket. Just one or two small accessories can make the difference between a nice gift and a great gift!
For example, the messy bun is the official hairstyle uniform for new moms. When there's a hungry three month-old crying in the living room, she doesn't necessarily have the time to wash, condition, dry, straighten/curl, and spray her hair. A scrunchie or quality claw clip is the perfect gift so she can make the messy bun look intentional and chic!
Some pretty earrings make a great option, too. You don't want anything flashy or over-the-top, but a little pop of color or sparkle is a great way to help her feel beautiful as she adjusts to life as a new mom. Here's a pro tip: big hoops, dangling crystals, or tiered earrings are not your friend here. There's absolutely nothing worse in the world than putting on a new pair of earrings, loving them, and getting them yanked out of your ear by a grabby toddler!
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One Last Note for Partners (and mom!)
Friends, family, and partners, I get it, there's a lot of pressure associated with being the gift-giver on a "first" holiday, whether it's a first birthday, a first Christmas, or a first Mother's Day! But at the end of the day, the fact that you put in the effort is what really matters. Putting together a gift basket like this is the best way to go above and beyond on Mother's Day, but really, her Mother's Day wishes aren't that complicated: Let her wake up to a clean house, a fresh, hot cup of coffee, and clothes that make her feel comfortable and pretty while her body recovers.
To the mamas reading: Happy Mother's Day! Being a mother is the hardest job in the world, and you absolutely, 100% deserve all of the love, gifts, praise, and attention you get today! If you see something you love in this post, don't be afraid to casually send the link to your friends/family/partner 😉
Shop for your favorite new mom's "Fourth Trimester" comfort capsule online, or stop by Wrightsville Ave! We'd love to help you build the perfect gift basket for your favorite first time mama.
Looking for a gift for Mother's Day, for someone who isn't a first time mom? We have the ultimate slow Sunday Mother's Day guide for you HERE!
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